Hit a snag

For the past few days I've been working feverishly on the story for the Phaze contest, as you can see from the writing goal bar. Mostly on dialogues. Chapter 1 is almost done, although I need to polish it, and I'm almost starting chapter 2. Now here is where I hit the snag - that first meeting between the hero and the heroine. I know they're going to meet at the club, so the setting isn't the problem. It's how they're going to meet there that's bothering me now. For the past two days I've been pondering the options. Since it's an erotic romance, I need it to start the sparks by chapter 1 going to 2. So I thought they should meet the first time when the hero asked her to dance. Slow dancing can be a good way to start their relationship. However, I'm finding it hard to insert the slow dance into the way chapter 1 moves into chapter 2. You see, I ended chapter 1 with the heroine and her friend going off to a "private" party with the villain and started chapter 2 with the hero noticing the heroine and her friend while they talked with the villain, and he follows them upstairs and saving the heroine from the evil guys. So I'm wondering what to do. If I keep going as I do, the story will have more action than romance. I mean, the romance will be there. It's the erotic part that would be hard to insert among the action parts.